Sense of Humor
A sense of humor is directly related to comfort. Someone who knows how to laugh
is not only comfortable with him or her self, but probably with us as well. A sense
of humor can turn even the most boring or mundane evening into a memorable date.
People who know how to laugh and make others laugh are often relaxed, and tend to
pass this relaxed feeling on to the person they are dating. Laughing together is
usually a sign that two individuals share a common belief, point of view, or connection
that no one else possesses. In fact, there is nothing more intimate in a relationship
than a couple that is able to share a joke or a laugh with no one but each other.
Common Interests
Common interests are what drive us to consider asking a person out on a date. If
we feel that a person looks at the world in a way that is similar to the way we
look at it, the chances are great that we will consider asking that person out.
Consequently, being out on a date and finding that there exist no common interests
is an easy way to guarantee there will be no second date. Common interests make
for extended conversations, as both individuals have something to add to the conversation.
Common interests also make it easy to find places to go for food or drinks.
Honesty
Another important factor that individuals look for in a person they are dating or
plan on dating is honesty. Many people find it difficult to be honest with another
person, especially during the early stages of dating. Most of the time, the dishonesty
isn't meant to hurt the other individual, but to protect the person who is being
dishonest. For the most part, the dishonesty that takes place early on in a relationship
centers on small things, usually embellishments designed to impress the other person.
However, it is important to note that the small little lies can quickly grow out
of control if they continue on for too long. Too many relationships have been strained
or destroyed by little white lies that eventually grew into great and unforgivable
deceptions. The best way to avoid any problems later on is to be honest from the
very start.