There are many places to look for love or companionship, and one place that is helping
people make connections is the internet! More and more people are meeting online,
but just as in the the physical world, there are tips and tricks to helping it work
in your favor. While there's a chance that you'll be the lucky one in a million
who meets their soul mate on a forum or message board, chances are, you'll have
better luck on a dating site. Take a look below for some ways that you can make
your odds a little bit better.
1. Don't talk down about yourself!
Many people tend towards the modest when it comes to talking about themselves, but
too often it comes across as poor self-esteem. If you can't find anything good to
say about yourself, why would anyone else take a second look? While there's the
risk that you'll come across as bragging, this is far preferable to having them
think that you are simply undesirable in every regard. Have some confidence in yourself.
2. Make the first move.
Don't just wait for the emails to roll in. While there is a good chance that the
people checking your profile might be compatible, there's also a chance that people
you will find interesting have never seen your information. Do some browsing of
your own, and if you see someone who looks promising, shoot off an email. The worst
they can do is say no, and who knows? You might have found that special someone.
3. Post a picture of yourself.
Personal ads with pictures get more responses. This is a fact. Get a flattering
picture, but make sure it's a current, truthful one, as well.
4. Be gracious
If someone doesn't seem interested, don't be a jerk about it. If possible, leave
on a compliment and try to leave the door open for friendship. You never know if
they've got a friend that that would perfect for you!
5. Communicate honestly
If you get to know someone well enough, it's all going to come around eventually.
Do you have a child? Are you interested in an open relationship? While you might
not always put this information into your profile, be up front with anyone that
you think you have a long term shot with. Don't get put into the awful situation
of having to do a big reveal and having it go hideously.
6. Ask someone from your target demographic to review your ad
Show your ad to your friends and get some input. They'll be able to spot any errors
or problems that you have missed and they'll be interested in helping you put out
the best profile that you can. They might be able to add some great qualities that
you never know you had!
There are lots of tricks to finding a date online. Head to HealthLife.com to find
a place where there are plenty of interesting people who are willing to talk to
you about things from life to love and everywhere in between!