Non-Sexual Touch
Not all touching has to be in the area of the genitals. In fact, while a man might
welcome the chance to be "felt up", most women get just as much out of
a gentle caress than out of having their breasts or buttocks groped. A soft touch
in just the right place can create a sense of passion and affection that truly resonates
with women.
Sacrificing What You Like
The key to a great time in the bedroom is focus. Since men are visual when it comes
to sex, they can sometimes lose their focus during sex. Forget about watching highlights
of the day's big game. Stay in the moment - the bedroom is where the magic
happens. Save the ESPN for another day.
Know What He Wants
Success in the bedroom requires an effort from both parties. While it is important
for a man to understand what a woman wants and expects in the bedroom, the same
goes for women. Understanding that a man has different needs than a woman, and then
being able to meet those needs is key to sexual success. It might be much to ask
to keep the sports highlights on during sex, but it's the thought that counts. Sometimes,
men don't want to be caressed, and they don't want foreplay. Just like a woman expects
a man to go through all the necessary steps that lead to a successful encounter
for a woman, skipping all those steps once in a while to satisfy him is also a good
idea.
The key to success in the bedroom is an understanding, as well as the willingness
to compromise. When couples take the time to understand what their partner needs
and expects, and when they are willing to share their needs and expectations with
each other, sexual success is almost guaranteed. Knowing what turns the other on,
and being willing to do what turns the other on can result in a healthy sexual relationship
that will leave both parties, regardless of their differences, yearning for more.